Never allow anyone to take you out of your character.
We teach people how to treat us. If you allow a man to call you late at night as an after thought, or call you out of your name because he is frustrated, not to open your door and allow you in first, or to even reference you as "man"; you are teaching him that it is ok to have little to no respect for you. You are a woman, one of God's greatest creations. He has trusted us to bring life into this world. To allow a man to treat you less than the way your father in heaven would treat you is unacceptable.
Ladies be firm in who you are. Lessons are best learned in actions not words. If you are approached with "hey", a horn or anything less then a proper greeting keep it pushing. The first impression, encounter and your reaction sets the tone. Make a man stand at attention when dealing with you, anything less is not for you.
This is such a true statement.
ReplyDeleteTo share a bit of my testimony, I watched a guy for over a two year period and I saw that he was a little flirtateous with girls, but i couldn't really say anything because he was single and was not my man. So i just thought oh well. I also saw how he was there for me whenever I asked so i thought that was a plus. But i guess it was my bad because this dude was a gentleman to me until I let him get some. Then all of a sudden I became an after thought. Like he said if the party I am going to is wack, then i will hit you up.
I was a little hurt but i guess bottom line is I should have listened to your initial advice and have had sex until we were married.
Sex will definitely turn a gentleman into whoever he really is.