What do we look at when we engage in dating? what should we be looking at? Is it the way the man walks? Does he have swagger? Is it the scent of the man? Is it the approach he takes in greeting you?
The answer should be all of the above. Take notice of the way a man walks toward, next to, in front of or away from you. He should be walking as if he is going after something, as if he has a purpose.
When a man walks with a lazy posture, dragging his feet, or with his pants displaying the color of his underwear keep in mind he is displaying his self worth, his position of choice in this life and possibly his level of intelligence and confidence. Take notice of his scent. Does he smell nice, is he well groomed (basic grooming) has he visited a dentist lately? Even a construction worker directly after work will display some evidence of grooming. You should not have to teach or tell a man to groom himself, that was his mother's job.
His walk will tell you how much time he has on his hands. If he has a lazy walk, he has more time to waste then you do. If he is dragging his feet representing himself, how will he represent you? If a man doesn't have a plan for his life or goals, he can't possible contribute or be a partner in yours.
A man can be well dressed and be a jerk. A man can be dressed like a bum and be the best thing that ever happened to you. To me its a mixed bag. You gotta go inside the man to find mr right. For some you trip over it, other you gotta get a shovel and dig to China to find it. Either way, you are smart to do your homework on a man you are intersted in. On the inside. Hey I treid to put my name but I could only post as annonymus.
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