Just Relax

So I am at the park today with my four guys, the youngest playing his sport. My twins and I cheering while my hubby coaches the game. Just before the game gets started two women approach my hubby. I was sitting off to the side talking with friends when I noticed the body language of the women. Ladies we know when someone is on the prowl around our men. We were guest at a different park, so in all fairness they saw my baby and thought what I think every time I look at him (damn)! Being the gentleman that he is, he answered their questions, pointed towards me and sent them on their way. At the end of the game, I brought it up in a joking manner, we laughed and went on about our day.

Ladies, I did four lasting important things in the way that I handled the situation. First, I did not overact and/or make him be on the defensive, I did not cause a scene when it happened embarrassing us both and third I allowed him to be his self and not feel the need to hide any part of his life with me. I have always felt that if I have an attitude or overact to someone flirting with him, he will begin to hide it from me when it does happen. Once a man has to hide one thing from his woman, it makes it so much easier to hide any and everything else. Don't get me wrong, the situation must stay respectful and that's when the trust you have in him kicks in. Overall, he knows that he can come home to not only his mate, but his friend.
So ladies, when your man respectfully notices a pretty woman or a woman notices him (outside of your presence) don't jump all over him, just keep it cool and move on. Remember woman and men communicate completely different and most of the time, the way that we communicate only helps our men shut down and stop talking.