We have heard for years and years that men and women communicate in two totally different ways. Ladies, take a minute and talk to your man. I direct this primarily to you married women, because so many times we get caught up in the day to day routine that we forget to talk to our husbands in their language.
Cook your man his favorite dinner (food); Serve it to him in a lounge outfit you know he likes. If you have kids think of something he likes to see you in that talks to him (undercover). Make sure your hair isn't wrapped or all over your head. When you speak to him, speak in a softer tone than usual, a tone he associates intimacy with. Sit next to him while he is watching television (it doesn't matter if you like the show or not). Ask him of his day, and give him an encouraging word. Ladies, men need to feel that you care without pressure and direction. While he is talking to you, make some type of physical connection with him. This connection can be holding hands, your feet touching, your legs or head resting on him, whatever you choose.
You have now set the tone for whatever you like or desire for the week. He will go to work with you on your mind.
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