Walk Away

I just watched a show about verbal and physically abusive relationships. Domestic Violence is still one of the most kept secret in relationships. Most of the time people do not have a clear definition or understanding of what abuse is. There is never an excuse or justification for abuse from anyone at any time. Ladies, if you are being called out of your name (bitch, whore, stupid), just to name a few, it is not ok and it is definitely not healthy. Ladies you must understand that just as there are various boundaries and regulations that we must follow in society, they too exist in our personal relationships. Without boundaries and regulations in conduct one may become out of line.

Please be clear for those who brag about landing a couple of blows in return, it is not ok and it is not healthy and normal. Ladies we are special in our own right. Women do wonderful things and I promise for all of those who think there is no better mate out there for you, there is. There is someone who will hold you firm, yet soft. He will say the best things to you just to hear your laughter, he will protect you when needed, he will wipe your tears not create them. There is someone awaiting your love, dedication, loyalty and friendship. I can tell you from experience, it is nothing like being loved properly, it is everything that God has planned for you.
God has promised to lead you if you just listen to him. Stop derailing his plan just because you are impatient or scared to be alone.

God created us to accomplish and experience great things, not of which included the breakdown and destruction of his children. You should never be treated less than the way your father in heaven would treat you.

If you are in an abusive relationship, please get out and stay out. If you know someone who is in one, pass this on to them with a prayer.