What do we look at when we engage in dating? what should we be looking at? Is it the way the man walks? Does he have swagger? Is it the scent of the man? Is it the approach he takes in greeting you?
The answer should be all of the above. Take notice of the way a man walks toward, next to, in front of or away from you. He should be walking as if he is going after something, as if he has a purpose.
When a man walks with a lazy posture, dragging his feet, or with his pants displaying the color of his underwear keep in mind he is displaying his self worth, his position of choice in this life and possibly his level of intelligence and confidence. Take notice of his scent. Does he smell nice, is he well groomed (basic grooming) has he visited a dentist lately? Even a construction worker directly after work will display some evidence of grooming. You should not have to teach or tell a man to groom himself, that was his mother's job.
His walk will tell you how much time he has on his hands. If he has a lazy walk, he has more time to waste then you do. If he is dragging his feet representing himself, how will he represent you? If a man doesn't have a plan for his life or goals, he can't possible contribute or be a partner in yours.
Tuesday, September 13, 2011
Monday, September 12, 2011
Woman's Intuition
Ladies, when you are being pursued or approached by a man do you listen to your first or second thought for the green light? Before you answer, take a moment and think about the last two or three people that you have dated and it did not work out. Think about the day that you met and the feeling, voice, or sign that you received prior to exchanging information.
So many times women bypass that first thought of "NO" and say, a date won't hurt or he seems cool or I can get a free meal. That voice and/or feeling that you receive or feel is your woman's intuition. It is a naturally installed device to help guide us in our decision making personally and professionally. It tells us immediately if we are in danger or soon to be. The majority of failed relationships or dysfunction relationships would not be had we listened to our first thought.
When God created us, he gave us all that we needed to survive. Use what you have been given.
So many times women bypass that first thought of "NO" and say, a date won't hurt or he seems cool or I can get a free meal. That voice and/or feeling that you receive or feel is your woman's intuition. It is a naturally installed device to help guide us in our decision making personally and professionally. It tells us immediately if we are in danger or soon to be. The majority of failed relationships or dysfunction relationships would not be had we listened to our first thought.
When God created us, he gave us all that we needed to survive. Use what you have been given.
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